BtL is a fun and interactive course where couples learn and practice the skills needed for happy, lasting relationships.

Think of it as the modern alternative to traditional premarital couples programs, rooted in relationship science. And unlike some traditional pre-marital counseling programs, we welcome and celebrate all relationships, including those that are LGBTQ+, interfaith, and alternative structures.

Couples who participate in BtL report immediate skill development. 100% of participants reported feeling better able to manage conflict and communicate effectively after attending the workshop.

Research has found that being in a happy, lasting partnership makes us physically and mentally healthier. In fact, relationship satisfaction is a better predictor of a long life than genetics, cholesterol levels, or social class. In addition to living longer, it you also live a happier life: happy partnerships are linked to greater life satisfaction than money or fame, and reduced suffering in old age.

Studies on premarital counseling shows that pre-commitment workshops are great for relationships. Studies show that couples who have engaged in premarital counseling are 30% more satisfied in their relationships, report lower rates of conflict, and are less likely to get divorced. These benefits held true when researchers followed up with couples six years later.

The science is clear: investing in the health of your relationship pays off in the long run, for you two as a couple and for your own individual health and happiness!

Traditional pre-marital courses are typically completed in the year prior to marriage. While that is a wonderful time to come to BtL, we also know that commitment comes in many different forms, and believe there is no wrong time to improve your relationship. BtL is a good fit for couples who are deepening their commitment. For example, if you are:

• Thinking of getting engaged/newly engaged

• Newlyweds

• Preparing to have children together

• Buying a home together

• Adopting a pet together

• Merging finances

then BtL is the right fit for you.

BtL is for couples who are committed to their relationship and want to build healthy relationship habits as they move forward together.

We are currently accepting couples for spring 2023. Contact BeforeTheLeap@gmail.com.

While BtL does not accept health insurance directly, we will gladly file out-of-network reimbursement claims on your behalf.